‘He is said to have hanged himself in his room. The incident came to light at around 10.30 am when his parents knocked at his room and got no response. The reason for taking this extreme step is not yet known.’ How many times have we seen such headlines but left them unheeded thinking that it does not involve us or our kith and kin? But who knows someone close to us may be thinking of committing suicide or is having suicidal thoughts. Read to know why people take this extreme step and how to help them.
8,00,000 people die due to suicide every year, which is one person every 40 seconds (World Health Organisation, 2019). Stigma, particularly surrounding mental disorders and suicide stops people from seeking help and reaching out for professional support. Let us break this stigma and start talking about suicide.
India and China account for 40 percent or more of the 800,000 annual suicide deaths globally (World Health Organisation, 2014). The majority of the people who commit suicide are men and in the younger age groups.
Despite the gravity of the problem, information about the causes of suicide and risk factors is insufficient. After making careful observations, we have found a number of different causes of suicide as to why someone does it.
Some of the most common causes of suicide are as follows:
Lately, due to the pandemic, there has been a significant increase in the number of cases of emotional distress, depression and anxiety. Teenagers who have been isolated from their social circles, friend groups and outdoor activities are experiencing high levels of anxiety and depression. Depression is one of the leading causes of suicide among teens. They feel as if life is too much for them to handle and they cannot look past those negative life experiences.
50 to 60 percent of all people who have died because of suicide gave some warning of their intentions to a friend or family member (WMICH). Teenage suicide has also become very common in the recent past. Some of these warning signs are constant lack of energy, having sleep disturbances, inability to concentrate, talking about hopelessness and death, impulsive, reckless behavior, etc. The chances of committing suicide increases with the number of attempts a teenager makes. And, above all, teenage suicides can be prevented by ensuring proper communication and therapy.
Isolation can be one of the final nudges that push an individual towards taking their own lives. Now that we are confined to our houses, with minimal social interaction, the need to talk about suicide has never been more important. This global pandemic has made us face new realities of working from home, home-schooling, temporary unemployment, and lack of physical contact with friends and co-workers. Looking after our mental, as well as our physical health is of utmost importance now.
Family and friends are the ones who need to look for signs of suicide and they should be able to differentiate them from the usual thread. If the family member feels that their loved one is depressed and suffering from a feeling of worthlessness, they should take it seriously and seek professional help immediately.
The person should not be left alone and the family people should try to encourage him or her to open up and speak about their feelings. Families need to be supportive and help their loved ones overcome depression and the unwanted feelings they are experiencing.
On an individual level, we can educate ourselves and create a safe space for dialogue for people with suicidal thoughts and can prevent suicides. Here are a few steps that we can take to prevent suicides-
When someone commits suicide, they obviously have lost hope. If you know someone who is feeling suicidal then check out how to help them deal with suicidal thoughts and save a life.
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